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On the bright side, I’m now married to the love of my life, and am thankful to have her as my wife each and every day. She supports who I am, and sees the man I plan to become. We’ve been married for two and a half years, and I plan to grow old and grey beside her, as she grows more and more beautiful with each passing day. Buy it:  Good There’s Some Ho Ho Ho’s In The Pits Shirt

I gained the courage to leave a few months before the anniversary of our wedding and we were divorced shortly after that. She continued to abuse me and unfortunately I have lost contact to my child after getting a restraining order against her after she physically threatened to attack, and she’s told my child some terrible lies about me that they would tell me from time to time when we would see each other. Buy it:  Top I Would Like To Apologize To Anyone I Have Not Yet Offended Please Be Patient I Will Get To You Shortly Shirt

I was planning on leaving the country but she fell pregnant and I stayed to raise the child. Proposed to “do the right thing and stay together for the child”, but my depression grew while being controlled and constantly told how worthless I was, and unfortunately attempted suicide.During the time in hospital my family told me not to go a head with the wedding, but she gave everybody a big song and dance about changing and supporting me, a complete 180 on how she treated me. Buy it:  Good I Wish Being A Bitch Paid The Bills Shirt

On the bright side, I’m now married to the love of my life, and am thankful to have her as my wife each and every day. She supports who I am, and sees the man I plan to become. We’ve been married for two and a half years, and I plan to grow old and grey beside her, as she grows more and more beautiful with each passing day. Buy it:  Hot I Never Dreamed I’d End Up Being A Daughter In Law Of A Freaking Awesome Father In Law But Here I Am Living The Dream Shirt

I gained the courage to leave a few months before the anniversary of our wedding and we were divorced shortly after that. She continued to abuse me and unfortunately I have lost contact to my child after getting a restraining order against her after she physically threatened to attack, and she’s told my child some terrible lies about me that they would tell me from time to time when we would see each other. Buy it:  Nice Sorry I’m Late My Pitbull Was Sitting On Me Shirt

I was planning on leaving the country but she fell pregnant and I stayed to raise the child. Proposed to “do the right thing and stay together for the child”, but my depression grew while being controlled and constantly told how worthless I was, and unfortunately attempted suicide.During the time in hospital my family told me not to go a head with the wedding, but she gave everybody a big song and dance about changing and supporting me, a complete 180 on how she treated me. Buy it:  Hot I Never Dreamed I’d End Up Being A Daughter In Law Of A Freaking Awesome Father In Law But Here I Am Living The Dream Shirt

Not myself, my brother. Several red flags. One includes his MIL tossing unwanted kittens into the dogpen and laughing. Wife laughed along with her. Another was she slept in the same bed as her mother until she was 20+ years old. She then beat the back of my brother's head while he was on his way outta that situation. Buy it:  Top Hand Grinch Holding Mask 2020 Stink Stank Stunk Ugly Christmas Shirt

I actually knew a few months before getting married but I thought “ah well, maybe I’m just nervous about the wedding and everything will be back to normal afterwards”. We went on our honeymoon and broke up a months later. Stayed married for 2 months, although it took another 1,5 year to finalize the divorce. I wish you could get an annulment when married for less than a certain amount of time. Buy it:  Hot Once You Choose Hope Any Thing Is Possible Cure Hope Fight Strength Find A Cure Diabetes Awareness Shirt

I tried to keep it going, she lost her job, played candy crush on her laptop for months and months and I STILL believed I could make it work, she left me... I’m not kidding, my 16 year old dog died right after, and I failed out of grad school because I wasn’t present mentally to learn. You get that feeling... you FUCKIN RUN! Now I’m with the mother of my 2 kids but we aren’t married technically, just common law. Not even courthouse married, just filed joint taxes. Although I think she deserves the wedding of her dreams, we can’t afford it, and I’m afraid. We have been together 10 years. I’m just so afraid that I’ll get that feeling. I can’t do it again. Probably going to ruin this one too with that damage. Buy it:  Official American Flag Stop The Steal Shirt

At our wedding, post-ceremony and pre-dinner my blushing bride got upset that her family... who volunteered to make food as we were not able to afford catering, were slow getting the food out. A few people left and she thought it was because people were hungry and the food was taking too long. I have like 5 people in my family and 3 of them were there. It was 150 guest wedding. She went all ballistic and started yelling and crying... that’s when my family popped in to say goodbye, they were just uncomfortable because of her hysterics. I knew I fucked up BAD...  Buy it:  Top Black Cat When You’re Halfway Through A Book And Come To A Plot Twist At 1 Am Shirt

Had a very toxic gf, they broke up, he was borderline suicidal. Met a girl 1500 miles away on Facebook. He moves out to live with her. Few weeks later they get married. First week after, she sends him back home. Then tells him she wants him back, he packs up and heads back, she serves him divorce papers. He goes back home. She had one kid. She and him don’t get divorced yet, but by the time they “make up” and he heads back up there, some other guy knocked her up. Now she has two kids from 2 different men. He stays. They have a kid together. Buy it:  Lovely Dear Santa Just Bring Cows Ugly Christmas Shirt

This is a story told to me by my friend. She went to her cousin's wedding. Everything goes nicely and then during the reception the husband hits his new bride. When called on it he says how "she's his property now". My friend, some cousins, and uncles all stepped in and let's just say the wedding was annulled. Buy it:  Sweet Native American Strong Indigenous Woman Shirt

Everyone has different life experiences and different thoughts on what "normal" is. I don't get why people don't talk about their life plans for marriage before signing the marriage license. In the above case this obviously wouldn't be something that can be sorted out, however lots of stories on here come from two people expecting a different lifestyle and never once mentioning their plans/beliefs/ideals with the other. Buy it:  Pretty Touch Me And Your First Jiu Jitsu Lesson Is Free Shirt

He told me he would leave, but he had nowhere to go, and was wondering if I could loan him some money for an apartment deposit until he got paid from his new job at a foundry. Because I'm compassionate and a complete fucking idiot, I gave him the last of my money. The DAY AFTER, he sends me a picture of a fresh tattoo. The tattoo was a pocket watch that read the time that I "broke his heart". Buy it:  Nice Once Upon A Time There Was A Girl Who Really Loved Books And Cats It Was Me The End Shirt

Six months later, he had run us into the ground financially. We both got laid off from our jobs at the same time, so we had to leave our town and move in with my parents. He chose to completely numb himself by playing video games and eating in our bedroom. He never applied for jobs, school, etc. He refused to help me buy groceries or clean the house. We fought constantly. After he refused to go to counseling with me on multiple occasions, I told him to quit wasting my time, grow the fuck up, and leave. Buy it:  Wonderful Let Me Pee In That Butt Shirt

A week before the wedding, I find out that my then-fiancé was secretly going to a stripper's apartment and to bars with her. The wedding had already been paid for and everyone had already bought gifts and RSVP'D. I decided I was going to try to "prove everyone wrong" about us and go through with it. Buy it:  Cool No Matter Where I Go I Always Leave My Heart In Scotland Shirt

I was in college and paying my own rent and bills, so the idea of marrying him and having a duel income was tempting to me. My parents threatened to stop helping me through school if we lived together out of wedlock, so we casually decided to get married at a courthouse. My parents weren't satisfied with this because it wouldn't be official "in the eyes of the Lord", so they insisted that we have a wedding on their dollar. Buy it:  Top Things I Do In My Spare Time Drink Gin Look At Gin Research Gin Shirt

I was 19 and deeply in denial about how unhappy I was with him. We were both still young and trying to find ourselves, but he was emotionally stunted by a turbulent family life and inadequate homeschooling. I was insecure and liked the familiarity of him, so I stayed way longer than I should have even though he was a socially maladapted loser. He was downright embarrassing to bring places. Buy it: Beautiful I Deliver The Best Girl Of All Shirt

It took 7 years to actually divorce, but I first thought maybe I made a mistake about 3 days in. He stopped referring to me by name. I was only his wife. Then I absolutely knew it was a mistake when he called his boss a nasty racial slur and got himself fired the week before our honey moon 2 months after our wedding. Buy it:  Attractive Reindeer Christmas Cunt Shirt

When I got on Facebook (I was still pretty new to it at the time) and it suggested as a friend a girl (~13 yo) who looked a LOT like my new husband ... and neither my new niece nor my stepdaughter (the one I was aware of at that point) would tell me anything about her and just said I should ask him who this little girl was. Buy it:  Funny Pack My Diapers I'm Going To Auntie's House Shirt

I dated and lived with a guy for almost 6 years before we got married in August of 2017. Both second time around.. I have a daughter, he has 2 sons. It was over just after Valentine’s Day 2018, so we didn’t even make it a full year. Discovered his love for porn and his addiction to gambling were alive and well even when I thought he was done with it. Divorce was final a month after our 1- year anniversary. We’re still friends but that’s about it. I’m done with the dating/marriage scene for a while. I’m going to enjoy being single for a while. Buy it:  Super Nice I Am His Voice He Is My Heart Shirt

I separated from my husband less than a month before our 1 year wedding anniversary. I don't think getting married was a mistake, if anything it helped me get the clarity I needed to make the hard decision to leave. We were a co-habiting couple 10 years before we got married, and I couldn't imagine my life without him, seems like I did all the homework I was meant to right? But it wasn't until we were married, and relying more on each other than ever, that I realised how lonely and unsupported I felt, and that I had the potential to be happier and more fulfilled on my own. I'm glad I did it, because it gave me the electric shock I needed to get out of the toxic relationship, and now 4 months later, I'm still discovering myself, but happier as a divorcee than I ever was as a girlfriend or a wife Buy it:  Fantastic Santa’s Favorite Medical Assistant Merru Christmas Shirt

She cheated on me. Can't be a clearer sign than that. We were married just over 4 months. I get to work, find out there's some bigwig company meeting and I won't be needed, so I can go home. I go ahead and grab a coffee and hit the road back. There are two cars parked outside. Now, maybe I was bad because I was untrusting, but I knew this car wasn't a visiting friend or a guy doing work on the house. I know before I got in exactly what's happening. I can feel my blood coursing in my veins I'm so pissed as I open the door, get on the floor, everybody walk the dinosaur. Buy it:  High Quality Whatever Flag Map Shirt

Not really a quick thing. But I was away for work a couple weeks. came home to an absolute dump of a house at 3am and by dump I mean crap everywhere, you had to literally kick piles of rubbish out the way to open doors etc. She wasn't home even though she knew I was coming home. Long story short we got kicked out of our house and I should of left then, but we had 3 kids together and I wanted to keep the family together. Buy it:  Cute Biden Things Happen In Philadelphia Shirt

I was wrecked after a huge few work weeks away and went right to bed, and figured I would help clean later that day. Got woke up just before 9am to the real estate opening my front door (she neglected to tell me an inspection was happening that day and didn't not clean anything at all (guess that's why she wasn't home) Buy it:  Wicked Bee Hummingbird Talk Birdie To Me Vintage Shirt

Yes we have lived together for 20 years n we are more like pals than lovers. His wife was living in California n we met in Arizona n then moved to Illinois together. Been living there for 20 years.. his wife actually came to Arizona to tell him to get home but never accomplished her goal. We left arizona before she got there. Thus I never knew all this. When I asked to see his divorce papers when we were first dating n he told me a huge lie that they got burned up in a house fire. She had been looking for the last 20 years for him. I feel terrible for her. Buy it:  Best Peter Griffith Shirt

Sometime after that, he was going on a camping trip with his childhood best friend. It was supposed to be a "boys" trip and I didn't mind. Not even a day into the trip a mutual friend sent me screenshots of MY best friend's facebook. He was on a trip with her. Just her. And she had posted the photos on facebook of them together. Buy it:  Original Personal Stalker I Will Follow You Wherever You Go Bathroom Included Shirt

I became a depressed and anxious wreck. I didn't have energy to do anything other than play video games and draw. They were the only thing that brought me joy. One day he became angry with me over who knows what I hadn't done, dishes or laundry or something. It turned into a screaming match and at some point he hit me. And then during another arguement later he hit me again after he'd apologized profusely and cried and said he'd never do it again. Buy it:  Official Houston All Month No Shave Beard Gad Shirt

I became a depressed and anxious wreck. I didn't have energy to do anything other than play video games and draw. They were the only thing that brought me joy. One day he became angry with me over who knows what I hadn't done, dishes or laundry or something. It turned into a screaming match and at some point he hit me. And then during another arguement later he hit me again after he'd apologized profusely and cried and said he'd never do it again. Buy it:  Pretty I’m Fine Everything Is Fine I’m Fine This Is Fine Kindergarten Teacher Shirt

What finally pushed me too far and made me leave, it was a combination of things. He had cheated on me multiple times since our wedding. All with ex girlfriends of his. I tried to let that go considerong the sticky situation that made us break up before was due to what some may consider cheating on my part. So I thought "well fair enough. I won't give upon us over it" but it happened repeatedly. I started to get paranoid about it. I saw signs of him cheating on me again everywhere. And I would be right and he'd confess. Then he started hiding it and gaslighting me. Making me think I was crazy and feel guilty for suspecting it of him. Buy it:  Nice Snowboarding Mom Like A Normal Mom Only Cooler Shirt

 That night my son started crying needing to be changed, she walked outside called her dad to say she needed to go back to the hospital. I changed the locks that night. She never tried to come back, her dad picked up our son. After a year of not seeing my son I was served with divorce papers. She got custody of my son and I got the medical bills from the hospital. Buy it:  Official Happy Thanksgiving Vintage Turkey Roasted Shirt

 Every time I went to see her she would yell at me that I didn't come see her enough. She didn't care that I was taking care of our child. When I told he if she committed herself again I wouldn't come to visit she accused me of ignoring her and not caring about her. She was released and i said we need to go to counseling, she responded with she had been through enough counseling and didn't want to talk to another doctor. Buy it:  Premium Gym Shark Shirt

We separated about 16 months into the marriage after she had our son. She begged to have a child even though we weren't ready. 2 months after having my son she couldn't handle being a parent so she committed herself to a mental ward 3 times in 2 months to get away. Buy it:  Happy What Santa Doesn’t Bring Me My Grandpa Will Shirt

Had complications and had to leave work. He immediately got a job and became nice again. After I had my child, I went back to work but at another company. Again making more than him. He again quit. Always started fights. Then he became physically violent. I left him before our first anniversary and immediately filed for divorce. I never belittled him or tried to make him inferior. He was only kind when he was in total control. Buy it:  Better Husky Dog Tell Me It’s Just A Dog And I’ll Tell You Just An Idiot Shirt

 I came home from work and he was at home and he shouldn't be. He went to school in the morning and had to be at work at 3pm-11pm. I asked why he was there. He said he withdrew from school and quit his job. He only had one year to finish. He said my wife is making big bucks sarcastically. He had an issue once I earned more. He completely changed. I'd known him 3 years. I got pregnant right away.  Buy it:  Great I May Look Calm But In My Head I’ve Headbutted You 3 Time Shirt

The day after the wedding I immediately regretted it. We were married by a justice of the peace. I was working at minimum wage job. Just graduated college. The day of the wedding I received a job offer for an assistant manager position at an actual company for a lot better pay. I told my husband after the ceremony. He looked at me weirdly. I had to start work immediately. The very next day. Buy it:  Cute Dog Greyhound Be You The World Will Adjust Shirt

2 years we lost. No doctors had ever warned her of the possible mental and behavioral effects of the contraception pill. That there were different kinds and can effect you differently. I was relieved and at the same time furious and saddened. How many young women out there might be suffering from a misprescribed contraception pill? How many lives were destroyed? How many relationships? Its maddening to imagine a girl experiencing that and never knowing why and god forbid hurting herself. There needs to be WAY more education and communication for young women starting contraception regarding these effects because it is potentially disastrous. Buy it:  Good Never Underestimate An Old Man Who Is Also A Vietnam Veteran Moon Blood Shirt

 A week later I woke up to the smell of bacon and music. She had woken up before me, she was cooking breakfast and she was singing. I went downstairs and she smiled at me. I hadn't seen her smile in a year... I'd forgotten she could smile! Holy shit it was like she was back and I'd never realized id lost her. She told me that since coming off the pill she felt like this fire that had been burning inside her was gone... she didn't feel angry or tired anymore. Buy it: Official I’m A Lone Wolf Alone Alone All Alone Forever Shirt

 That was the last straw for me... I couldn't live like that anymore... I didn't like the way she made me feel about myself anymore. I told her how I felt and out of desperation and clinging for solutions I just randomly suggested maybe she come off the contraception pill and see how she felt. I didn't know what to do, but I loved her and I wanted to find a solution. She agreed to come off the pill. Buy it:  Cool Im Social Distancing Fuck Off Shirt

 I'd walk in and find her on the floor crying banging her head against the wall. She'd have the shortest temper and lash out violently... or flip her lid at the slightest provocation. Weve always talked about everything and never hid anything from each other and she'd tell me she couldn't explain why she felt so utterly without hope or desire to live. After a year of this, one night we had an argument, threw an iron at me and stabbed my clothes with a knife out of anger. Buy it:  Pretty I Might Look Like I’m Listening To You But In My Head I’m Hunting Shirt

 I did “all the steps” to have the “picture” I always hoped and dreamed but in reality a picture was all it was - something that looked pretty on the outside but nothing to it on the inside but emptiness. So to answer your question, I think many of us know it’s a mistake quite soon, but we allow ourselves to settle with the red flags bc we think we can one either change them or two look over them. Buy it:  Premium I Got 99 Problems But What People Think About Me Aint One Shirt

I knew from the beginning but I was scared to face the reality. I wanted the “picture.” Him and I met on bad circumstances but I still wanted not only to prove others wrong for thinking we wouldn’t last, but prove my gut wrong. I stayed way longer than I should and I was miserable. If I have learned anything it is that Gut is God and to always listen. I was married for one year. Buy it:  Happy Vince Mccans Shirt

 It was less than a month later my parents realized why I never wanted to marry him, he was worthless. We got married in June and in December I told him I was done. He hadn’t truly moved in with us, my parents were watching my daughter while I worked and he drank at his dads 30 minutes away. I knew I never wanted to marry him but being broke $1000 on top of our $500 wedding was enough for me to cave at the time. What a mistake. Less than 6 months I don’t even count it as a marriage lol lesson learned. Buy it:  Better Pour Noel Je Veux Une Licorne Shirt

I was standing in the bridal room before my wedding looking in the mirror saying “Are you sure you really want to do this? This is not what you want” should have listened. Married cuz our daughter was 1 month old & my parents insisted she “needed a dad” so they told me they’d give me $1000 & pay for us to go to Vegas and get married. Buy it:  Nice I Loved You Your Whole Life I’ll Miss You Husband For The Rest Of Mine Shirt

 I tried to push off the wedding but the more excuses I made the matter he got. So I got married. He constantly spent all my money so that I couldn't escape. One day a friend told me I could move in with him That was the day I slam that ring on the counter and left. I abandoned all my stuff and didn't look back and started completely over my life has been so much better since. Buy it:  Original Its Either Serial Killer Document Aries Or Christmas Movies We Either Sleighin Or Slayin Shirt

We lived together and he controlled every aspect of my life I wasn't allowed to get my license or buy my own car or eat what I want, or go where I want, or call my friends. I started doing everything he wanted when he wanted that way I didn't have to deal with a fight. Which included saying yes when he proposed. because I knew if I had said no it would have ended with me having no place to go. Buy it:  Best Just Hanging With My Gnomies Christmas Squad Shirt

 In the years after we separated I continued to find bottles hidden everywhere... the trunk of the car, golf bags, the basement. That was over ten years ago. He is now so sober (6 years!), happily remarried and one of my best friends. Our marriage was an unfortunate circumstance that turned into something beautiful after the fact. I’ll never regret a moment of my misery. Buy it:  Premium 46 We Just Did 2020 President Shirt

He refused to lift a finger for anything. He was also verbally abusive telling her she was stupid when she didn't answer a question fast enough. She swears he wasn't like that before he moved in. And he had moved in to help with bills, but she ended up with less extra money after, which made her financially stuck with him for over 10 years. She only "got out" because she passed away about 2 1/2 years ago (not related to anything he did).  Buy it:  Official 2020 Was The Best Year Ever This Claim About 2020 Is Disputed Year Review Shirt